A Nigerian dating app where you hold the door.

Mi Amor is a dating app built in Nigeria, for Nigeria. Free to join, real profiles, and one thing most dating apps refuse to give you: control over who can see you and who can slide into your messages.

The Nigerian dating app problem

You sign up, your photos go out to everyone, and the messages start. Most of them are copy pasted. Some are worse. Within a week women in particular are getting an inbox they did not ask for, and everyone quietly stops opening the app. The apps know this and do nothing, because more messages looks like more engagement.

Smart Privacy tiers

On Mi Amor your tier decides two things: who can find your profile, and who is allowed to message you. Free and open when you want maximum reach, or locked down so only people you have approved can reach you. Nobody can see which tier you picked, and you can change it whenever you like.

Built for how Nigerians actually meet

Pay in naira through Paystack, not in dollars through a card that gets declined. Filter by state and city so you meet people you can actually see. Students can set their campus and get a feed and daily question just for their school. It works on a slow connection and installs to your home screen without the Play Store if you want.

Dating, but not only dating

People here also come for friends, networking and general connections, and they say so on their profile. That sounds like a distraction until you use it. It means the people who did tick dating actually mean it, so you are not spending your evenings trying to work out whether this is going anywhere.

You control who sees you

Smart Privacy tiers gate your profile and your inbox. Change your tier any time, privately.

Real people, stated intent

Everyone says what they are here for, so dating means dating.

Pay in naira

Paystack checkout in naira. No foreign card, no declined transaction.

Free to join and message

No message credits. Create a profile and start talking for nothing.

Questions people ask

Is Mi Amor free to use?

Yes. Creating a profile, browsing people and messaging are free. Paid Smart Privacy tiers are optional and change how visible you are, not whether you can talk to people.

What makes Mi Amor different from other dating apps in Nigeria?

Smart Privacy. On most apps your profile is shown to everyone by default and anyone can message you. Here your tier decides both, and you can change it at any time without anyone knowing.

How do I pay for a tier?

Through Paystack, in naira, with a Nigerian card or bank transfer. There is no foreign currency step.

Do I have to be looking for a relationship?

No. You can set your intent to new friends, networking and mutuals, something serious, or still figuring it out. It shows on your profile so people know what you are here for.

Can I use Mi Amor without installing an app?

Yes. It runs in your browser at miamor.chat and you can add it to your home screen so it opens like a normal app. There is also an Android build.

How do you deal with fake profiles?

There is verification, plus reporting and blocking on every profile and chat, and reports go to a moderation queue that a human reviews.

Meet someone who means it

Set up your profile in two minutes. It is free to start.

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